Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Yay Christmas!

Getting into the Christmas spirit is easy as pie for moi, because it is one of my most favorite times of year! I adore Christmas songs...the beautifully decorated stores and homes...twinkly lights and the sparkly feeling in the air.

I LOVE it! I don't even mind Christmas shopping, because we don't go crazy, but I do enjoy the bustle of the folks scurrying along to pick out the perfect gift. I also don't leave things until last minute, so I can enjoy my experience.

Growing up was the BEST, because we would sometimes celebrate two Christmases. One in Calgary with Gran and Gramps and every other year we would go to Winnipeg to visit moms family. Both were wonderful...but quite opposite. Calgary was a bit reserved...quiet, peaceful and nice. Winnipeg was crazy fun...my mom has a huge family and they all live close to each other and get together over the holidays. Boxing day there would be about 10 open houses...and the crew would start at one home and fill themselves with delectable little appies, and a spirit or two...then on to the next house...there must have been 100 or so folks. Everyone would move at their own pace so no ones home ever got too crowded...it was so exciting. We always remembered which house had the best pop, food, and goodie selection. It was wonderful.

My cousins lived out in rural Winnipeg and had a lot of land AND a snowmobile! Back then, Mark, Kristyn, Shayne and I would ALL fit on at once, and we would drive around singing Christmas carols at the top of our lungs as we gazed up at the stars.

The other fun thing about celebrating Christmas with a big group in Winnipeg was the singing. Mom's family LOVES to sing...none of them are good...but damn do they have fun! Since I love singing myself, it was always so exciting to flip through page after page of carols, singing and laughing all night.

Whether we celebrated Christmas in Calgary or in Winnipeg, it was always wonderful. There was always a warm crackling fire, wonderful goodies and treats, music and a lota love. Yes, there were certainly gifts...but that is not what I remember or love most....in fact I don't even remember most of the things I have received...but I just remember the feeling of anticipation...and all of the wonderful traditions.

When we were in Calgary, we got into the tradition of watching all of the Christmas cartoons and movies we had taped over the years....Clay Rudolph, Mickeys Christmas Carol, Grinch, Frosty, Cabbage Patch Christmas, and later on Home Alone...and a few others. Shaynee and I would always sleep in the same bed on Christmas Eve and try to stay up talking and dreaming about what delights the next day would bring. We diligently put out cookies and milk for Santa (still do), and mom and dad tucked us in..hoping that we wouldn't sneak downstairs.

I remember that wonderfully amazing feeling the next morning...Shayne and I would wake up early and sneak down stairs and the floor would be brimming with treasures...our giant stockings bursting at the seams...it was so exciting. We would try to just look at everything and wait...but we couldn't help it and soon we would be running upstairs to wake mom and dad.

One Christmas Eve tradition that I loved, was when we were in Winnipeg, Uncle Mel would always read "T'was the Night Before Christmas" out of an old children's book. He always read it with such enthusiasm...and it just gave you that cozy, wonderful feeling of joy and love.

I think traditions are important and give people something to look forward to...and really helps to create wonderful memories. Ivan and I have started some of our own traditions...an annual party, decorating the tree together as we sip champagne, celebrating with both of our families... That is why this year, I am bittersweet. I hate that word, because it reminds me of a cheesy Harlequin book...but it is the only accurate term I can use to describe my feelings at this very moment. Ivan and I are leaving for a one month journey to Peru and Bolivia....but we are going over Christmas and New Years....so all traditions are out the window.

However, we ARE going away for a month!!!! How exciting....and to make this even more exciting...my wonderful parents booked tickets and will be here tomorrow morning to celebrate an early Christmas!!!!! I am so excited...I have planned out the whole 5 days and we will be eating a nice family Christmas dinner this weekend. Then next week I go to Toronto to see baby brother and have a little celebration with him as well!!!!

What more could a girl ask for...off to bed I go...sweet dreams and enjoy!

Monday, November 29, 2010

Fire and Water

It's just not worth it....you know...not making an effort to go to a restaurant you really want to, and instead eating where it is convenient. I am staying at the Marriott hotel in Victoria on business and it is pissing rain out...cold and dark. Granted, I can no longer drive at night, because my vision is crap in the dark...and I was too cold to walk anywhere.

Fire and Water is the name of the restaurant in the Marriott and the atmosphere is charming...it has a nice cozy feeling, with the large fireplace...and right now it is all decorated for Christmas, making the room feel even more lovely.

I have eaten here a few times (due mainly to laziness at the end of my work day...and the fact that I simply can't see at night) and have consistently been underwhelmed. Everything is just okay. However, the price point says it should be excellent. One glass of wine and an average dinner and the tab is over $40. Tonight I ordered their Fisherman's Hot Pot....which sounded much better than it was. Meant to be like a Cioppino, this version was quite bland and all of the fish seemed to be on the dry side. The broth could have used some real inventiveness...some fresh herbs perhaps....a zing, a zap....just something damn it.

I really wanted to try Brasserie L'ecole or any one of the myriad other wonderful dining establishments in Victoria...but alas...I had a full day...I am tired, and now full...with a crappy aftertaste of cardboard and bandaids (for some reason..not sure).

I am sitting by a window watching the leaves swirl around on the ground, and the branches of the trees shiver and shake...perhaps I made a good choice to stay put after all. I suppose sometimes comfort can triumph good food??? I hate myself for even writing that...but alas...tonight, its true.

Now I just have to make my way back upstairs to my cozy room...watch a little tube, dream a little dream and enjoy.

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Natural Skin Care

As I have mentioned previously, I was pissed off with my long time skin-care product Decleor because they changed the packaging....so I went to the Origins counter to seek new horizons. I like the concept of Origins as all of their products are natural and not filled with a bunch of preservatives/chemicals and shit.... I was in search of a daily moisturizer with an SPF, that I can toss into my travel bag (or "Possible Kit", as my parents call it...because when you have your kit...ANYTHING is possible...hahah don't you love it!).

I found the perfect thing called VitaZing. It has a slight tint that creates a nice even skin tone, and it feels great...not greasy or heavy. I LOVE it! it is a small 50ml tube...but you don't need much...but it cost almost $50 which I thought was rather expensive. Decleor is also a natural based beauty line...but at amazingly fair prices.

So I think the VitaZing will be my new summer and travel cream..and the Decleor will be my regular daily cream.

Either way...you can't go wrong with these product lines. Also just a little tip...most of the skin care lines in the Bay and Holt Renfrew will give you a free mini facial to help asses the products that are right for you....it's a really nice little treat during your day...just be sure you don't have to go somewhere special afterwards....OR pop by one of the make-up counters for a free make-over. You usually just have to purchase one product and you can get your holiday make-up done for free!!!!

I wish you happy, healthy, glowing skin....get your freebies and enjoy!

Saturday, November 27, 2010

DONT DO (prescription) DRUGS

How many medications are you on? any? If so...have you ever thought about attempting to alter your "dis-Ease" with whole foods, exercise and natural medicines?

I know this is a controversial subject, and I do not profess to be an expert whatsoever...but all I can say is that I don't get sick...I haven't popped a pill for 10 years or more and have found that any sort of discomfort I have experienced in life...can usually be cured with sleep, yoga, nutrition and willpower.

This was another thing that Wayne Dyer spoke about the other night...that the world (especially America) seems to believe that everything can be cured by a drug. People are incorrect however..... they may be able to suppress symptoms, mask illness, and find temporary relief, but.... if bad enough the root of the cause will return.

Again, I am not a doctor, nor am I a trained naturopath, but it seems more like common sense to me. It really upsets me to see pills and medication ADVERTISED on t.v. This is disgusting. Only Australia and the United States are legally allowed to advertise drugs on T.V. Unfortunately for us Canadians, we also get U.S. channels, and we all know the power of advertising works. Look at the dish soap under your sink, the brand of laundry detergent you use, toothpaste, shampoo...what kind of computer are you staring at right now....we live in a world where we watch too much t.v. and are highly influenced by what is on there. I am no different...although I watch very little t.v. I'll be the first to try out that new mascara that promises to make your eyes look like a models.

But why the eff must we be subject to hearing about anti-depressants..or any such prescription drug (that if you listen close enough to the list of side effects...sometimes includes increased risk of suicidal thoughts and higher risk of death) WTF....don't you think depressed people are having a rough enough time without INCREASED thoughts of suicide. I personally went on anti-depressants when I was in college because I was going through a rough time in life...and I felt psycho on them. Having my mom come to stay with me for a month was much more of a helpful cure than those stupid fricken pills! (thanks mom) Had I of known then what I know now...I would have encouraged myself to start eating more healthfully (instead of pizza pops and KFC--it was university..what can I say). I would have started taking better care of myself by getting exercise...and the myriad other things that can help...books, friends (the positive, healthy ones), yoga, massage, treating yourself to something nice once a week....etc etc.

So today I was watching one of my cooking shows and a commercial comes on for yet, another new drug, that you apparently should take on top of taking an anti depressant....apparently an anti-depressant alone is not enough...but now you should be taking this other drug and that will really help you....I wanted to barf. The sad thing is, that because we live in a society that craves instant gratification...taking a pill is the easiest...we have become so lazy, that we mindlessly pop a pill instead of getting our butts up off the couch to exercise or do something to take care of ourselves. It's really sad....and these commercials look lovely....gorgeous women and men laughing having a good time with all of their friends....buy this drug and you could be just like me? SICK!

I would encourage you, next time your doctor prescribes you something...to do a google search and find out all of the negative effects of that drug..and see what natural remedies you can find instead. Many illnesses and diseases are caused by stress and being over weight....try changing your lifestyle instead, and maybe you will actually cure yourself instead of just hiding the symptoms, while potentially compromising another part of your precious body. As we all know, every action has an equal and opposite reaction. So if you think that you are taking a drug for X...you may be affecting Y without even knowing it!

Just be aware is all I ask....do a little research first and see if you can use some natural measures... because there is so much life to enjoy!

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Wayne Dyer Part 2

So back to Mr. Dyer. Manifestation is something that I try to incorporate into my life....I know it works, as it has many times before. I know we all get better with practice...just as in almost anything in life. I first learned of these techniques from the amazing movie and book called The Secret.

Many people watch this and feel its "hokey pokey...fulla crap" but that there in tells you pretty much every thing you need to know about that person and how fulfilling their life is. The techniques are quite simple...but the key is to practice daily. I should be watching that movie every week...reading the book each month...to try and create a positive habit. I have vision boards up in front of me in my office filled with photos of my "ideal life" it is inspiring to gaze upon it.

Wayne takes manifestation to another level...which I have practiced before...but again, I let it slip...so this has inspired me to get back on that fabulous train! He believes you should write it down in the present tense..."I am __________" not, I hope to, wish to, will...because all of those denote that you actually "do not". He says that the sub-conscious mind cannot differentiate between that which is reality, or what we BELIEVE to be reality....so we must simply believe it is already true. So for example, if you want to loose 10 lbs. Don't write down "I want to lose 10lbs" instead, write down " I am 140lbs and feel great" insert what ever # feels great to you. "I am a successful writer", "I am a wonderful grandmother" (I think my mom uses this one daily without even realizing it.....I am sure it will work for her one day).

The next step is to breath in while saying to yourself "I am_________" and on the exhale repeat "I am". Ensure you feel wonderful while in the process of manifestation, and you inject passion into it...and believe it will work. As you do this, in your mind point to the piece of paper where you wrote everything down. Don't share your manifestations with anyone, because the moment you do that, says Mr. Dyer, you then have to explain why...you may start to justify it...and you pop right back into the ol egoic mind....you know the one, that natters to you all day filling your brains with "what if this, what if that...I should this and you should that...the one that strangles you with fear and keeps you in that nice safe little box...the one that prevents you from achieving your dreams" bottom line...keep it to yourself...you are entitled to whatever you desire!

Now the final key to manifestation in Mr. Dyers eyes is that it must feel natural. For example...if my manifestation is "I am a six feet tall black man who is an NFL champion" well...that simply doesn't feel natural (not without a shit load of surgery anyway). So be sure your manifestations feel natural. And watch what you say dang it....if you go around telling people that you will always be poor...or you are content with your life...then you will start to believe it..and that is just exactly what you will get. You are your thoughts indeed...so think big...what do you have to loose?

Lastly, Mr. Dyer said that the last 3 minutes before you fall asleep are the most important moments you have to tap into your sub-conscious mind. So instead of rehashing your shitty day at work, or that guy that cut you off in traffic...that client that you want to punch in the head....try doing a silent manifestation...place your attention on all of the things you are grateful for, the life you desire...all of the positive things that make you smile....and try this with your kiddies.

Life is beautiful if you want it to be!

Enjoy.

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Wayne Dyer Part 1

I bought tickets to see Wayne Dyer live last night, and it was great! I have read some of his books, listened to the wise words on his CDs and generally enjoy his insightful teachings. Ivan was interested in attending as well.

To my surprise the Queen Elizabeth Theatre was PACKED with over 2000 answer seekers in attendance. The energy was fantastic. We sat in the nosebleed seats, but still had a wonderful experience. The evening started off with a group meditation, which was exactly what I needed after a long day of work...it was very peaceful to hear silence fall across a room filled with so many living souls.

Wayne is now 70 and looks fantastic...same soothing, warm voice as I hear on his CDs, wonderful sense of humor, and sparkling yet calm energy.

What resonated for me the most out of his talk is something that we all intrinsically know, yet forget in the monotony of life. Get up, shower, dress, brush, eat, work, eat, work, eat, talk, bitch about work, sleep-repeat. So many of us blindly float below the surface of life....as I like to think of it. There is more...much more..he believes that we all have "music" in us...a life's purpose. How do we know if it has been fulfilled..."If you are still breathing...it has not" says Wayne. So, you and I, are either living, or in search of our life's purpose. His is enlightening human beings...his daughter Sky's is to sing, my colleagues is to help sick children, and the guy down the street creates beautiful breads for his customers. It's finding our "bliss" that thing that makes your heart sing...that thing you would do, even if no one paid you for it...that thing for me is writing and cooking for loved ones. I think I came to that realization just last night...and it's exciting.

It has taken me many years to find this....would I love to have a career out of it...hell yeh...but until such time, I am thrilled that I started my blog, and tickled to find new recipes to test on my friends and family.

The other main point I gleaned from Mr. Dyer is his techniques for manifestation. I shall continue this tomorrow as I am exhausted and must wake up early for yoga. until then good night and enjoy!

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Inspiration

Just got home from an inspirational evening with my hero Wayne Dyer. He gave a three and a half hour program tonight. Must go to sleep now and marinate some beautiful thoughts in my sub-conscious!

Will write about my experience tomorrow.

Sweet Dreams, sleep well and Enjoy!

Monday, November 22, 2010

Vij's to the rescue

I made my first recipe out of a new cook book that one of my friends bought me for my birthday called Vij's At Home. This is the second book Vikram and his wife Meeru Vij have done together...they also own one of our very favorite restaurants in town (or maybe anywhere) called ViJ's. This place rocks! And it's a true dining experience all around.

They don't take reservations, for ANYONE...even the stars have to wait (and believe me this is the place that you may see a few famous faces...last time I was there Danny Glover was sipping a glass of vino on the front patio waiting for a table just like us!). Expect an hour or two wait to be seated if you are going Tuesday-Saturday....but chillax. They have a great wine menu...and they price the glasses the exact same as if you were to buy the bottle. They have a list of fantastic wines all priced under $40bucks...so you can get the bottle if you want! We usually polish off one bottle while waiting for our table. Actually the entire menu is priced extremely well...you can dine here often without breaking the bank!

The time flies by, because it's set up like a little cocktail party atmosphere...so you wait outside on the front patio during the summer and in the winter, you pile into the back by the bar with the rest of the folks awaiting a table. Everyone is always joyful, as they have a beverage in hand and the best part is the the servers come around with gorgeous, hot little Indian appies!!!! So you sit/stand around chat, drink and nibble...it's fabulous!!!

When you have the privilege of being seated, let Vij or your server order for you! They are amazing at this task, and it enables you to try things that you normally wouldn't order. Indian food is meant to be shared...so don't order the lamb Popsicles to yourself (but please order them) because too much of any one dish would be a shame. You must taste all of the dishes...go with four people if you can so you can share the love ...and so you can order more!!(only go with foodies...non foodies will not like it here).

I regress, back to the cookbooks. So I own both of the cookbooks. Vij's-Indian cooking was their first publication, and it is a little intimidating....definitely for the more experienced cook...a lot of very different ingredients that I am not familiar with. Vij's at home is a little more user friendly...so I made a coconut vegetable curry last night and it was very good. I missed one spice that I have never heard of, but overall it was a very nice dish....extremely spicy, but I feel encouraged to make another dish. Not every day though...because they sure add a crap load of salt and oil to their curry. It didn't taste too salty or oily...but I knew it was in there!

Either way....grab a copy of their cookbooks and try your hand at Indian cooking...or if you are too lazy...then go to their lovely restaurant...Vij will most likely be there (he usually is...cant miss him...colorful outfit, sparkling bright eyes and warm smile) - call us up, and we will join you!! Enjoy.

Sunday, November 21, 2010

RMT-Kitsalano

The other day I decided to investigate my benefits program through work and discovered that we have a whole bunch of massage therapy to be used up per each calender year!!!!

We LOVE massages. Ivan loves it because he always has a sore back, and I love it just for general relaxation and well being. The key being it must be a RMT (registered massage therapist).

So we went on a mission to try and book some massages over the weekend. It's hard to get into a good registered massage place on short notice. The first place we went to was called Sage Integrated Health. I had Julie Sage (the owner) who was a very pleasant lady...but I have to say it really wasn't a massage...more like a pulling of my muscles....I am sure this type of therapy helps/works, but it wasn't really my thing. Ivan came out feeling the same way...he had a lady named Nada. He said it was a useless treatment and felt like she was just sort of patting his skin.

So yesterday we found Elements Wellness Centre and Studio which is gorgeous! It's an actual spa type atmosphere...you can actually get a mani/pedi or a facial...but you can also get a massage with an RMT! This is not very common...as usually masseuses in spas are not registered. This place is beautiful and our massages were awesome!!! I had Sue, and Ivan had Lonni. They were fantastic!!! Along with the soft music, and comfy massage beds, I was in heaven. We actually went for 1.5hrs which was a little long for me...I think 1hr is just perfect. They charge $100 bucks per hour...which was the same as Sage....but these ladies were much better!

If you have a great benefits plan at your work, and it includes massage...try out Elements and enjoy!

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Pork Chops with Cherries

So yesterday my beloved Ivan spent all day on the phone and computer booking a trip to South America!!!! Woooo Hoooo!!! We have been hoping/planning on doing this trip for some time...but due to a variety of circumstances we kept holding off...now it is all becoming a reality!!!

I didn't help him with this task one little bit...except for to silently cheer him on and feel grateful that he is the "expert planner" in the relationship! I did the part that I am good at...and put a bottle of champagne in the fridge to chill...as I felt a celebration would be in order that evening.

I wanted to also make a nice dinner to enjoy the occasion as well...but we didn't have much time because we went for massages after work. So I flipped through my 30 minute meals by Rachel Ray and went to the "date night" section. This is a good book for last minute stuff...so I found a recipe that sounded awesome.

Pork chops with a cherry, brandy sauce with zucchini and toasted walnuts. Unfortunately I don't think it was that good. The flavours were bland for some reason. My cherry sauce was supposed to ignite in the pan when I added the brandy...but it didn't. Perhaps that would have changed the flavour. Was my heat not high enough? Did I not use the right pan? Please tell me how to ignite flame...this is a skill I still do not know!

My bob's red mill gluten/wheat free pancakes turned out exceptional this morning however! I added buttermilk vs. rice milk because I had some left over. I have been avoiding dairy for the past 1.5 months....but I didn't feel too badly afterwards...and it was worth it because the pancakes were big and fluffy. Who knows what tomorrow will bring....now its time for me to snuggle up in a blanky, watch a flick and Enjoy!

Thursday, November 18, 2010

Royal Dar- Ladysmith

What a hidden little treasure! Business brought me to Ladysmith, BC today, and I met with some clients at this little Indian place called the Royal Dar. You would never know it was there..unless you knew it was there. Situated in a cute little house-style restaurant, it almost felt like it really was dining in someones home. The owner Kam was there, and was a gracious hostess, with a fun personality, and is obviously known well by the locals.

We started with three baskets of nan....had too much left over, so only get two baskets for 4 people. The spinach nan was some of the best I have ever had...tender, soft, and bursting with flavour. The garlic nan was a close second, but you must try the spinach!

We all ordered the same dish, although Indian food is generally prepared family style so you can share. But since we all wanted the same item...there was no need to share, so we could greedily eat every last bite. Which is exactly what we all did!

The lunch portions are perfect...I ate everything and didn't feel too full or empty..just right. We each ordered the Seafood Goa which was excellent. Full of flavour, not too oily (like some Indian food can be)....as spicy (or not) as you like it, with chunks of fish, scallops and prawns. Your traditional condiments such as rice and subjee (an excellent vegetable concoction).

We enjoyed some wine and Indian beer along side our delicious lunch, and I must say if you are on the Island, its worth it to zip over to this adorable little place and enjoy!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Avenue Bistro

If travelling through the Comox Valley by chance or with purpose, stop in at the Avenue Bistro for lunch or dinner. I have been there just once before, but have been impressed each time. Very pleasant atmosphere, modern decor without being pretentious or uncomfortable, great service, and very good food.

Tonight was a client dinner and no one seemed to be all that hungry. So a smattering of appies and wine it was.

The Oysters were fresh and succulent, splash of lemon and down the hatch. The prawn tempura was excellent..not too much batter, but light and delicate with a beautiful fusion slaw on the side, the beef carpaccio was flavourful and accented beautifully with little cornichons, capers and aioli....it may have been a little on the thicker side which my dining companions commented..but I enjoyed it very much.

They also dove into the artichoke, crab and spinach dip with fry bread....I am still avoiding dairy so I didn't try it..but it looked amazing...and must have been because the guys devoured it. I did try a small piece of the fry bread and WOW...never tasted anything quite like it..and it probably clogged an artery..but man...good stuff.

There are a few really good restaurants in the comox valley, which you may not expect, but being so close to the water...the sea food is bound to be fresh and abundant, and there are so many local artisans making cheese, breads and growing veggies...you really can't go wrong.

A retirees heaven, and a nice little escape, the Comox Valley is certainly a little hidden treasure you will Enjoy!

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Screw the Scale

So yesterday I went to a meeting, sat down in front of my client and he exclaimed "wow, you are losing weight"! I was shocked...but of course delighted..what woman doesn't like to hear those words (unless of course they are sick). I don't own a scale, nor have I ever. I don't believe in them...I know when I have packed on some additional love because my clothing is tighter and not as comfortable. Do I really need a scale to accentuate that with glaring proof...no thanks.


As you know, I returned back to Bikram Yoga, and committed to going 4-5 times per week, each week until I leave for holidays mid December. And I have kept my promise...so its been about 3 weeks. And in such a short time, I feel wonderful...and apparently people are noticing already!!! I can't stress enough about how well this particular method of yoga works. In no time at all, I will be wearing my skinny jeans again (without sucking in all night and walking like I have a post up my ass)...YAY.

The sacrifice is early to bed, because 5:30am comes damn early...but wow...to know you have finished your work out by 7:30am and have the entire day to do as you please.....IM IN!

Have a good, solid sleep, get up early, work that body and Enjoy!

Monday, November 15, 2010

Light and Fluffy

These are the terms that should best describe freshly whipped cream and homemade cakes...but today I realized that my HAIR is light and fluffy. Definitely NOT the adjectives a woman would wish their hair described.

I long for flowing...no- cascading, long wavy hair. I can look at any woman, and if she's got good hair...then she is probably considered hot. Bad hair?...better have a damn good face. My hair is light and fluffy...even when I spend 10-20-30 minutes trying to style it.....I end up putting it up in a twist, because, quite frankly, it ain't cascading.

I try to grow it out...only to have stringy, piecy hair. I think Denise Richards has amazing hair...she has amazing everything really....biiiiaaacch! Catherine Zeta-Jones equally amazing locks...in a classier, less slutty sort of way.

Now, I realize that a lot of these women have hair extensions...and I have really never wanted to go down that route...I like being of the real, natural variety. Not into surgery, or injections....not even fake nails. That said, perhaps I am a hypocrite because I do highlight my hair and wear makeup. Hubby says I am crazy and that he loves my hair...but would he really say different..not unless he was wanting to sleep in the proverbial dog house.

It's crazy, because I think you can talk to almost any woman, and they will say...ugggg I hate my hair...my hair drives me nutz, I wish I had.... My girlfriend Irena has amazing hair...and she thinks she has "the worst hair in town" grass is always greener right? Perhaps extensions one day...perhaps not.

But to make myself feel better, I must tell you, I made penne with lamb sauce tonight and it was delicious. had left over ground lamb kicking about...fried it up with a little bacon, onion, garlic, crushed tomatoes, paste, bay leaf, sprig of rosemary, a splash (or 4) of red wine, a pinch of brown sugar.....a perfectly delightful dinner...that was most certainly NOT light or fluffy at all.

So the moral of the story...be happy with what you have, and if you aren't - make pasta , drink wine and Enjoy!

Sunday, November 14, 2010

SURPRISE!!!

I LOVE throwing Surprise parties for people. The element of surprise is absolutely one of my favorite things in life. People love to be surprised (whether they say it or not). The anticipation on the side of the giver and the shock and delight of the receiver...all magic.

I have thrown 5 or so surprise parties in my life and I will continue to do so forever, because its just so darn fun.

The first one was for a girlfriend in elementary school...had a bunch of kids hiding in the basement...forget who the girl was...but I remember the surprise and feeling so excited in the moment.

One of my favorites was for my parents anniversary...it was a double whammy, because Shayne and I flew into town unannounced had a whole set up....and walked through the front door...mom couldn't even speak to us...she just burst into tears...dad was overwhelmed...it was AWESOME. Then two days later we threw a big party with all of their dear friends and again they had no clue and watching their faces as everyone yelled "SURPRISE" priceless....such a real, authentic, joyful moment for everyone.

Of course sometimes things can backfire...like when I was dating this doorknob years ago...I had planned a huge surprise party for his birthday. Cakes, balloons, fridge stocked with booze and all. he got so hammered with his guy friends beforehand, he got mad at me for taking him away...said I was a very selfish person for not letting him spend his birthday with his buds.....I burst into tears.....uhhhh SURPRISE??? well that was awkward...needless to say I broke up with him that night.

Other than that shitty instance....all of my other surprise parties have been a great success. I even started throwing surprise party's for myself because I liked them so much. Well...I guess I wasn't really surprised...but I always threw myself a good party....why not...no one else is gonna do it for me!

Surprise parties are a bit of an effort of course...but so well worth it, and I am good at it. Not sure how I got to be so good at it...since I am such a crappy liar...but I guess when I know they are lies for a great purpose and benefit....they just trickle out with ease!

Last night I had put together a little surprise party for my dear friend Carmen's 40th birthday. With some help from her wonderful friends, I had everyone get all gussied up...tuxes, 3 piece suits, cocktail dresses...it was WONDERFUL to see everyone looking so gorgeous. I served up some sexy cosmopolitans, that I had pre-made in a glass pitcher. Ready to pour as the guests arrived. A smattering of delicious foods...everyone brought a little snack...Aryn brought a lot of yummy appies including deviled eggs, cheese twists and mixed Olives dressed with lemon zest and herbs...yum! I did a bunch of hot items since we weren't eating a proper dinner.....chicken sates, dates and parmesan wrapped in bacon (my sinful favorite), asparagus wrapped in prosciutto (easy and always a hit), Thai prawns and chocolate cupcakes. The cupcakes looked gorgeous with their snowy white frosting...but unfortunately the recipe wasn't all that great...and a lot of effort, so I don't think I will be making those again.

Everyone arrived early, sipped and nibbled until our guest of honor arrived. You could feel the excited anticipation in the air as everyone scurried to find their hiding places. SURPRISE!!!! indeed she was surprised and it was awesome to watch. The evening was super fun and ran smooth as cream thanks to my buddy Aryn who helped me out so much in the kitchen...she is such a chef extraordinaire.

I look forward to arranging yet another surprise party one day...for some deserving soul....last night it was Carmen....maybe next time it will be you...or me! :)

Consider throwing a party for a loved one, as everyone will certainly ENJOY!

Friday, November 12, 2010

Going Green

I have really been trying to get into the habit of bringing a cloth or re-usable bag to the grocery store. It's a hard habit to form...but I am determined. Today, I actually remembered, brought the nice sturdy cloth bag to Safeway...ticked each item off my shopping list...went to the check out....had a pleasant chat with the cashier as he bagged my groceries, then left. Two full plastic bags full of food and one empty, sturdy, cloth bag....I had forgotten to actually USE it.

No real need to comment. Off to bed.

Enjoy.

Thursday, November 11, 2010

ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE!

My FATHER sent me an EMAIL today.!!!!! This may seem like something normal to you....but for ANYONE who knows my father, you are probably aghast! He didn't actually type anything, but he sent me a forward....I couldn't believe my eyes! I feel like the world has changed as I know it...and I feel inspired that people can do things that they said they would never do. Nothing is permanent....anything is possible.

My father and his father were dead set against the Internet and email and basic forward progression of technology (quite frankly I don't blame them). Although my father loves the microwave...if the new technology doesn't involve food...forget it.

He has been in business for himself for many years and garnered much success by using couriers and fax machines. And he said he would continue to run his business this way....if it ain't broke don't fix it, type thing. My mom, bless her heart, prints out every one of my blog entries for him to read. Now he hasn't quite gotten the hang of actually going onto the Internet yet....but I feel optimistic...imagine how much paper they would save.

So mom went on a trip to go and see her family back East, and showed pops how to retrieve and forward emails(yes, he does have an email address...but his assistants would only use it). Can you believe it...the man who still has our T.V. from 1980 in the living room (it still works...although I am sure its the radiation that monster emits that is the cause for our chronic bad breath)...the man who returned his blackberry for an old cell phone because it was too confusing, the man whos cousion gave advice to my husband in a speech on our wedding day saying "don't send your father in-law an email.....he doesn't know what that means" this very same man...sent me an email today! I am going to just relish in the feeling of optimism for humanity and our future. Enjoy.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Dinner Delight a la Aryn

How spoiled was I yesterday- VERY! My dear friend Aryn had her mommy and myself over for a true gourmet delight. I have only met Helen once before, but we clicked instantly...and it was so nice to spend some time with a mommy, since I am missing mine so much. After work, I zipped home to finish the raspberry coulis for my dessert, which was the bourbon chocolate torte from one of my fave cookbooks Rebar....so easy to whip up and perfectly decadent for a dinner party.

I packed up my wine, left some dessert for Ivan and his buddy, who were watching the hockey game on the big screen like two little boys. Chips, steaks, cocktails, and of course the famous pickles that Elliot LOVES, and I believe he takes everywhere with him. It was pretty cute.


So off I went with my torte and a bottle of white to Aryn's place. There is something so wonderful to me about getting in the car to go over to a friends home for dinner. It's relaxing, and exciting, I am always curious as to what will be eaten, and so content that I know someone else is doing the cooking and the dishes and I just have to sit, eat and relax!


We started by sipping a bottle of white that Helen brought home from Germany on her 2 month cruise...it was a nice addition to slip into bubbling conversation, as women tend to do...and its especially easy with these two chickes, because not only are they both great listeners, but they also have so many fascinating story's to share. Helen always seems interested in EVERYTHING...and she insists it's because she is just nosey, but I can tell it's just because she is a very caring and loving person...same as her daughter (and I am not saying this just because you both are reading this right now...hahahaha).


Onto the FOOD. I won't even do this justice, but Aryn started with something 100% better than any fancy restaurant....she created a mushroom cake as the base...soft and tender, topped with bacon, then a plump scallop, dotted with bits of caramelized apple and leek with a delicate sauce and you should be completely jealous, because it was AMAZING! It looked very intimidating to make, so I am glad I was the one eating it. The combination of flavours was just awesome.


Dinner was equally amazing, with a perfectly cooked salmon fillet...which had a slightly crisp top, but very tender middle, I believe there were leeks on top of that as well, and a beautiful sauce with fresh tomatoes, thyme and I can't even begin to imagine what else. Lovely, thin, delicate asparagus gracefully laying in the middle of the plate and a pile of soft creamy POTATO risotto?! Never had this before, but it was wonderful. The meal was very satisfying, and I really didn't even need dessert afterwards...so we gabbed for a bit, made some space in the ol belly and dug into the chocolate torte. I have to admit, it was excellent! When making something so chocolaty, be sure to use the best dark that you can find. I like getting the huge slab hunks of Bernard Callbaut from Kitsalano Natural Foods in the bulk section.

What a wonderful ladies night...great food, nice wine and excellent conversation...get together with your chickie friends soon, or the guys to watch a game and Enjoy!

Monday, November 8, 2010

Notte's Bon Ton

Another wonderful Roast chicken Sunday family dinner. Not with my family...but with my new family...Ivan's mama and her boyfriend Mike joined us for a cozy dinner. They just returned from a month long cruise, so we got to view their gorgeous photos, drink lots of wine and eat my yummy chicken dinner.

This time instead of rice, Ivan really wanted red new potatoes. So I did them up like my mom used to.. sliced in half and boiled till fork tender, drained, tossed with butter, salt and fresh scallions....and they were soft, pillowy and delish. Roasted asparagus for the greens and dinner is complete. I think roast asparagus is the easiest veggie to prep...pops into the oven while the chicken rests, drizzled with olive oil, s & p, give the pan a shake half way through and you have got yourself a damn good side dish!

They were sweet enough to buy a cake from their favorite family bakery called Notte's Bon Ton Ivan and his family used to get all of their cakes and treats from there, and Ivan and his dad would go in once (or probably twice) a week when he was young to have coffee and eat a treat. To me, their pastries are much to sweet...I do not have a sweet tooth to begin with, but these are overthetop sweet and rich. Ivan has this adorable tradition to purchase one of their log cakes at Christmas time....it is CRAZY thick, dense and SWEET...but it is a true work of art. It looks like a smurf village...you have to order it ahead of time and it costs around $70!!!!!!!!!!!! But it was his family tradition, so we carry it on in our family too.

Anyway, Ruth knew I wasn't crazy about real heavy, sweet cakes so she bought me their very famous diplomat cake. I have to say, I enjoyed it very much, yes it was sweet, but it had a lot of interesting texture..soft and creamy layered with flaky pastry....there was plenty left over so Ivan ate some for breakfast. My gosh, that family sure loves their sweets....so European. I guess the Metis in me craves bannock vs. bon ton. But it was so lovely of them to bring cake because I really did enjoy!

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Lazy, Spontaenous Days

What a lazy day Saturday was. In pjays till 3PM!!! OMG, I cannot remember the last time I did that. I was a tincy bit groggy from the night before, and watched episode after episode of cooking shows on the Food Network , which I normally don't get a chance to do. I loved it...I learned a bit about how to make fois gras even more succulent on Chucks Day Off . Not only is this guy sexy as hell, he cooks like a mutha eff... and speaks french...yum...on all accounts. Then I gazed at the sexy Nigella and watched her prepare a smooth and creamy cheese cake using jelly preserves as a topping...never pie filling as she insists, and Chef At Home, the one and only adorable (yet slightly slow???) Michael Smith prep a quick and easy pasta sauce with bacon and tomato...always a perfect combination. I actually remember my mom making bacon and tomato sandwiches for breakfast/brunch on weekends. Soft white bread, smothered in mayo....Oh wow...perfect heaven.

I loved it...I loved sitting in my PJ's and watching these unbelievably sexy people create such wonders. They really inspire me.....and make me pull out my cook books to create something wonderful myself.

Clearly someone was inspired last night, when at 3pm-still in jammys, I invited my friend Aryn to come over and watch a movie since Ivan was going to the hockey game. So instead she said her friend Jen was making a spontaneous roast beef, and I was invited over to eat it!!! woo hoo! I love this woman Jen and we hadn't even met yet. As I mentioned last night "if you build it, they will come" classic line from Field of Dreams ....and a line I still believe in today! This wonderful woman felt like cooking a roast beef, and did just that , not knowing anyone would join her to dine...yet ended up with 4 woman sitting around the table, drinking delicious red wine and chattering about everything. It was a wonderful evening and I felt so grateful for being invited over, and grateful that I am just that sort of person to accept.

Life really is truly fabulous...and can lead in so many different directions...you just have to be open to accepting an invitation..go with your gut..and Enjoy!

Saturday, November 6, 2010

The New Bohemian

Ivan and I have often walked past this trendy little restaurant in Kits called The New Bohemian. It always looked cool and fun, which is more than I can say for the rest of Broadway dining. There are a lot of small, cute little Greek, Asian, Thai type restaurants and a tonne of pubs for the college kid crowd...but this is really the only place you can get a little dressed up and dine for a reasonable price. Last night was Friday and we didn't feel like cooking so we quickly got ready and went out for a little date!

The atmosphere is pretty chill and modern. Cute little room with pleasant lighting and a cozy fireplace by the entrance. We hopped up onto a stool at the bar to enjoy a cocktail for 20mins as we waited for a table. I had a nice and refreshing lemon drop martini, it was hard to decide as they all sounded groovy. Their martini list is good, and priced under $8 which rocks! Ivan tried their signature drink called The Bohemian which was a spin on the classic Mojito, muddled with fresh basil instead..it was excellent.

We started with the lamb meatballs which came in a nice and hearty tomato sauce....waitress said they were her fave for appies. They were good...not the best thing in the world, and Ivan said the flatbread that came on the side was gummy and not that good.

We split a bottle of delicious wine from the back of the menu....be sure to take a peek back there because they provide a 25% discount for unsold stock they are trying to use up when they change the menus. All of their bottles were a very reasonable price.

We split the Spanish Paella Skillet which was hearty and perfect for the two of us (if you are a big eater, get one for yourself). Presentation was great, as it came in a little pan heaping with shrimp, mussels, chorizo and chicken, with lots of yummy sauce, rice and nice flavours. They could have added a bit more spice to the dish, but it was very good.

We both felt sufficiently satisfied, pleasantly tipsy and the best part was that we just walked home!

Don't go out of your way to try this restaurant, but if you are in the hood and looking for a fun and well priced evening out with good food and drink then try out the New Bohemian and Enjoy!

Friday, November 5, 2010

Silver Tea

This morning I made the mistake of bringing my stainless steel mug filled with hot water to my hot yoga class. I think it actually started boiling during class because its so hot in the room! Why would I do such a thing you ask...well I didn't think about changing the water when I went into class. You see, I drink a cup of hot water every morning...first thing I do after getting out of bed...it feels wonderful on the tummy and gets things a movin!

My grandma got me onto this years ago. She has been drinking hot water for probably 50 years, and she is going to be 92 in January and is still beautiful! She always says that it is great for your skin and your digestion and she is living proof because her skin still looks amazing for 92!

I started drinking hot water about 10 or so years ago, and most likely will continue forever. I don't drink coffee, and only have about 1 cup of green or roobios tea a day, and I detest cold drinks (well unless is a cool glass of white) so my drink of choice is hot water OR if in Bikrams, room temperature water.

This often makes people feel uncomfortable and look at me sideways when they offer me coffee or earl grey tea or water with ice, and I reply no, could I make some hot water?.....there are a few of us out there who drink this beverage otherwise known as "silver tea" and you can add a slice of lemon and a drop of honey for flavour if you wish...but its just as lovely plain. My hubby even enjoys it with me now, and my parents drink it often. Mom puts a few slices of fresh ginger in for even better digestive benefits.

So if you are trying to cut back on that nasty caffeine habit but crave a warm drink in the winter (or anytime...other than in hot yoga) I encourage you to try a cup . In fact, try drinking a cup of hot water every morning before you eat for one month and see how you feel...good luck and enjoy!

Thursday, November 4, 2010

CHANGE

Change. Such a loaded word, that can inflict so many feelings and emotions. Some change is exciting and fabulous, and some change sucks. For example, my absolute favorite skin care line that I have been using for the past 7 years called Decleor recently changed their packaging, and I hate it. You could squeeze the very last drop out of your face cream before and throw it in your travel bag, because it had a tight screw top lid. This new packaging it supposed to be more modern I guess...but its hard plastic with a pump..so the bottom 1/4 of the bottle is impossible to extract, which is a huge waste....and the pump top prevents easy travel. uggggg....I am almost ready to change brands just because of this crap packaging.

Then there is sad change, when someone passes on, or divorce occurs or something of that nature. There is scary change when you get fired from a job, or have to move cities...

And then there is EXCITING and WONDERFUL change! This week, I heard some of the best news from a few of my dearest friends....a new pregnancy, a wedding date set for a wonderful new couple, engagement ring shopping for another...and a baby coming along in the next few months. I am sure some of this change is a bit scary for some of these folks...but this is the best type of change...exciting, and wonderful, and I was so overjoyed to hear of all this good news.

That said, I believe change does happen for a reason...so that lost job may very well open up a more desirable opportunity. Moving to a new city may be scary, but you could meet the man/woman of your dreams, and being forced to change face cream due to crappy packaging may open the light to an even better product....so I say, don't fight it, because change is happening everyday whether we like it or not...accept with ease and grace, and enjoy!

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Halloween Pumpkins

Halloween was wonderful....I really love this silly occasion! We had a wonderful weekend as it was quite beautiful outside. Saturday we got all dressed up for a little party in a friend's apartment. I was an 80's ski bunny and Ivan was a pimp. We got all decked out only to discover no one else dressed up!!!! slightly embarrassing, however, the hosts pulled out their "tickle trunk" and made everyone wear something silly. We enjoyed some cocktails and lovely appies.

Sunday, I wanted to have a fun "spooky day" So we slept in, ate breaky...left the dishes lying around and watched Zombieland, to which I protested at first, but Ivan insisted and it was actually pretty damn funny and very entertaining! We then went for a long walk and scoped out all of the scary homes decorated with ghosts, goblins, graves and witches....very cool. Late afternoon we had a pumpkin carving contest! Well, not really a contest as it was just the two of us...but it was a lot of fun and the results were pretty awesome. (I think I won though) The pumpkins look so cool all lit up.

I did Shepard's pie for dinner, but with roast organic lamb (so a very fancy version) and it was delicious!!! I have never made lamb before (and frick is it expensive), but it was easy to prepare...really just sear on all sides then roast in some delicious wine for 3 hrs...totally fall off the bone goodness! We sipped some lovely wine and settled in to watch another scary movie...this time it was the new Psycho which was very spooky. I had never seen the original (although now I want to) and it totally creeped me out...I think Vince Vaughn did a great job. Check it out and enjoy!